Final Reflections
Perfectionism often stems from external validation rather than internal fulfillment.
- Laurie Santos concludes, “True happiness comes from accepting our imperfections and recognizing our inherent worth.”
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Dr. Laurie Santos, alongside guests like researcher Thomas Curran and "recovering perfectionist" Jordana Confino, delves into both the societal rise in perfectionism and the personal impacts of constantly striving for flawlessness.
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