How to spot it
Backhanded compliments (“You’re surprisingly good at that…”)
Interruptions or talking over you
Eye rolls, smirks, or sighs
Sarcasm disguised as humor
Unnecessary corrections or exclusions
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People often try to assert control without confrontation, using subtle tactics like backhanded compliments, interruptions, sarcastic tones, or dismissive body language. These moves are designed to shrink your presence without overt hostility.
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